So, I'm starting this blog at the behest of my domme Dom, & yes, I have a domme named Dom. You have to remember, I am in it for the LULZ.
I immediately bought a domain name, then a second, then a third, then a forth. LifeCoachFemdom is the forth, and considering that I am certain my domme Dom would rather have my cash in her cashapp then on cyber real estate, I'm sticking with the present title.
This website is a different animal altogether. Many of us approach kink like episode one of a bad supernatural series. We're pearing down blind alleys following whispers and winds. We're lucky to even find people practicing our kinks, let alone practicing them with any compassion or grace. It took me several years to even find the kink scene, best represented online by fetlife.com (the internet is not real life, but fetlife comes pretty close to representing the people, places & things of the scene in a digital twin).
I've know of many people who were chewed up & spit out by the business of kink without ever touching the sacred ground of the social scene. Yes, that includes paypigs and financial slaves who lost thousands of dollars for tops who never even learned their safe words. But it also includes young girls who were put into a room with a whip and an eager, revved up submissive without being given any proper training or debriefing regarding their personal experience. These tops may not even know that they too can have limits and safewords, and may require aftercare and affirmation.
Ok, so intigrating the business & lifestyle of kink would have been ambitious enough, but when you're a Sag with your fucking moon in Sag and Pluto in the 12th fucking House... we're gonna have to up the ante. To me, treating each other with respect is not is not the upper limit, it's the bare minimum. We do not know what the upper limit is.
So, what is it? Let's find out. I've found psychological tools and communication skills helpful in my kink life, and why wouldn't they be? After all, kink IS communication.
So stay tuned! I will prayerfully be publishing sections of my life coach femdom erotica novel "Help Me Break You" on this site as well. Be advised. Help Me Break You is an erotica novel, NOT an example of the ethical practice of LCF. If I met the domme from Help Me Break You I would run away screaming. (Then DM her at 2 am but that's another matter entirely.)
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